Why you shouldn't give up yet.

If you give up on your dream, then you probably do not know how close you're to fulfilling it. Sounds familiar? While there may just be several reasons to stop doing those little acts you consider ain't taking you to your desired height, it still becomes pertinent not to ever give up on your dreams cause you don't know when, where and how it might just pay off someday, somehow, somewhere.

Being successful in a chosen field, requires discipline. It doesn't just come up without you putting in some dent of hard work.

Get your perspective right.

What is the essence of our lives? I kept pondering over this question as I start out my day. So many thoughts at the same time, what is the apex of our existence? Or is there none at all? Perhaps, is there more to life than what we go through everyday?

Our existence here on earth connotes some reasonable deep thoughts why we should carefully examine how we live it. Sometimes, people think, they got it all when they've acquired lots of wealth, but at that point they realise with more wealth comes more responsibilities, and consequently, more problems. On the other hand, also, a low income earner complains about how he doesn't have all the money, but there he is, he wants more.

Mission

More often than not, we get so carried away, claiming we are busy, but in the real sense of it, we're only 'busy doing nothing'! Have you ever find yourself doing what everyone does around? Doing what is trendy? What is in vogue? Or do you even mention such statement as "that is what everyone is doing?" When you do things because that is what everyone is doing, you're not yet living your purpose. There is need to find out who you're.

One of the most important questions an individual can ever ask him/herself is the question of 'Why?'. Finding out the essence of our lives here adds more meaning to it. This translates to living a more focused life. With right focus and concerted energy on the appropriate things, life becomes more worthwhile, fulfilled and success takes less time to achieve.

Identity and Clique

Our life wouldn't have been so complicated, if some of us would have taken time to be real. It takes a lot of energy trying to be who we're not. It involves a lot of time trying to fit into an identity that is not ours, which in itself is such a fruitless effort.

There is no shortcut to success, except this one principle of being oneself. No wonder, when we take on an identity of ours, we flawlessly do those things which we wanted to do, because it's been part of us. When we engage in an activity that is inner driven, we are more resolute in whatever we do.

Engage Your Mind.

The things you see or hear might not correspond to the visions of your heart, that doesn't mean you're a failure. But the big problems lies in the magnitude of your heart, how far you can see yourself going or not.

It is therefore, important to distinguish between what you see and hear with your sensory organs and the pictures of your heart.

When the eyes can capture the dreams of the heart, success becomes relatively easy to achieve. For, how far we go in life is directly proportional to how far our mind can take us. For me, being the architect of our life implies we stick to our dreams, regardless of the negativities surrounding us.

Some of us can be so pessimistic, and full of reasons why a project will not hold water, and yet we ask ourselves why things are not working in our direction. Whatever the mind cannot achieve, the body cannot achieve it. For instance, if you've been to the gym before, you'll know how practical this is.

Victory over every battle, circumstances and tough situations, is first won in the heart. Do not set out on a project you do not yet have a mental picture of, and a well detailed written plan of.

Make a daily investment in the development of your mind and see things turn around for you. Get relevant information about where you're heading and do not allow situations around you stifled out what you have in your heart.

What your mind can see, you can achieve.

Historical Antecedents

Drawing in between the line of being successful or not, there lies a thin line of the totality of our action, decisions and choices.

The quality of your life is marked by the quality of the decisions you make on daily basis.

Hence, there is a whole lot to do with the everyday decisions we take in life. The accumulation of our decisions in life culminates at the long run, into the prevailing situations we find ourselves.

Taking account of the historical antecedents of our life, it is important we we're able to do something positive with our current situations in other to create a kind of balance that we desire.

Historical antecedents, though, not presumably the only requirement to live out the kind of life we want, but a close observation of it as it relates to our life, can go a long way in helping us to take account of where we're coming from and give us a sense of direction concerning where we're heading to. Take note and be in charge.

Strength of Character

Someone once said, the gentility of a tiger is not a symbol of timidity. And on this note, I'll be writing about maximizing your full potentials in life.

Life isn't all about what 'they' said we could do or not. We don't have to limit our choices in life to the coffers of the world.

Regardless of our happenstances, there's got to be that drive, that strength of character that takes us all the way up. It makes us to be tough on ourselves, and go beyond our limits.

To be successful in life, we need not so much in life, other than a strength of character to push through the limits and boundaries the world has set before us.

If we can just push a little further, a little more, then we'll realise that, that long desired goal is just right around the corner.

Sacrifice. -AML (Part 3)

About the other day. . . so many grew up with dreams to be wealthy, have everything they would ever want in life. Be smart, brilliant, sharp, own refineries, and multi billion dollar companies across the globe. Have a very beautiful and fine spouse, lovely kids, and a great home. Indeed, a picture of everything one would ever wished for.

However, some of us couldn't live to be all those things above because they couldn't go the extra mile. Those things got entangled by all the negativities, seemingly impossible situations, those great potentials got stifled by the pessimism around us, hatred talks, average thinking, low self-esteem, and lack of confidence. We're so much absorbed, all we could see about ourselves are the negative judgements and standards people around him has set for us. We ACCEPTED those wrong definitions and forgot about our real self. Those cravings and desires to live a life of impact, and become all that we ever wanted to be in life'.

We allow our dreams to remain dreams, while we keep on procrastinating that singular action, that relationship, that business idea, that innovative idea, creative thinking, that factor we all knew could get us on our feet and set us above the world, because we're afraid, and that makes us settle for less than we desire. What happened to those great dreams we all have while growing up? That single thing that motivates us while things seems so unrealistic. That joy and peace of mind that make us get all over our heels and make us believe so much in ourselves?
Well, so many of us gave up along the way, couldn't push harder for those things we want out of life.
But, it's right there in you, and that's the real you. Give him expression, rise about the low standards and set yours. We don't have to give up on our dreams because somebody says it's not possible. No one could ever see your purpose in life the way it appears to you, the way you see it. You know how much weight your vision carries, and sometime, it even gets you scared, and you're like, talking to yourself, 'slow down, how's that gonna happen?' Flush out those negativities and impossibilities, and be yourself. Just because you grow up in a low estate doesn't mean you cannot rise to an high estate. Do not allow your present situations and circumstances influence the definition of your future. No, you don't have to do that to yourself. And you know what, it's right there inside of you, yes, that future, if only you can focus on it long enough, you'll see it coming to play. The single difference between those great dreams and your present situation is that you still haven't given it all your might and all that it takes. How much are you willing to pay for those dreams, if they really mean so much to you? There will always be challenges, it's part of life, but what you do with those challenges determines how far you go in life. Do not settle less for the dreams in your heart. Believe in yourself, focus on it till you begin to act it out. You're gonna see how much solutions you have to the world's problems that can change the world in a positive way. Let go of the average thinking and live your purpose.

Understanding people's social realities. -AML (Part 2)

Man is a social animal, anyone incapable of sharing a common life is either below or beyond humanity, either a beast or a god, explained the Greek philosopher, Aristotle. To achieve more with our lives, we'll always need people around us, and hence, it is imperative we value those in our cycles. Though, most of the time we'll make it an habit to judge other people from the perspective of our culture. What we fail to realise is that every individual has a social reality, social experiences peculiar to them, though not as an entity (except in the case of genetic and biological explanations), but as a member of a social group. This implies that, as individuals, we're all part of a wider social organization, and we act out the codes we've learnt over time through the process of socialization.

Thus, understanding people from the  perspective of their cultural background, their peculiar cultural elements, will go a long way in building a more healthy relationships and avoid most of the headaches we preoccupy ourselves with in our daily routines like,  relationships, marriage, work, school etc. What is considered to be a  'normal' behavior is a relative term, except if the behavior of the other person falls out of the general standard and codes of behavior the society has set. If not, try as much as you can to put yourselves in the 'shoes' of other before you judge or get pissed off with them. Life is more beautiful and fulfilled when we understand the battles the other person is fighting, and try to help them win over it. Sometimes, those helps could be a simple smile, positive compliment, or a simple hug.

Hence, to maximize and achieve more with our lives, at one point or the other, we need to think beyond our needs and put the interest of the other person into consideration. We constantly need to keep in mind that we're part of a larger social whole, without which our existence might not really make much sense.

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PLANNING. -AML (Part 1).

To achieve the most with your life, consider, taking time to PLAN. Robert Schuller once said, most people fail because they don't plan. So, in order to succeed, there is need for you adequately plan ahead of time what you intend doing. Ask yourself this question, before starting out that project, business, relationship, how much energy have you invested in thinking it through? You need to develop yourself before starting out. Plan your day before hitting the hit. You don't hit the road without first having a destination, a clue of where you're going to.
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Achieving the most with your life -AML. (Intro).... Forgive yourself, Learn the lessons and Move on.

Often times, we all look back our life and are probably not so proud of some of the things we've made it. At one point in time or the other, we all have to go through that phase in our lives. But the truth is, we don't have to look into the future with so much despair, because of the mistakes we've made in the past. No, we don't have to dwell there so much we're robbed of the opportunities, joy and peace of mind of the present times. Do not look into the future with so little hope! Yes, mistakes were made, but invaluable lessons were learnt. Forgive yourself, Learn the lesson, and Move on.

#On Political Matters.

Electioneering and the whole political process shouldn't be a display of lackadaisical attitude, lack of morals and ethics, albeit, victimization and intimidation, for those who know what they are doing and have the intellectual sagacity to handle the helm of power. For when this happens, it shows the extent to which our democracy has been bastardized. For when people lack the free political will to determine who governs them, then indeed, there is need to be curious.

LIVE YOU.

Having a confidence in yourself, is your sole responsibility, it's either you do or you become a replica of someone's identity. So many of us live daily by the standards people around us have set for us, and therefore it becomes quite difficult to live beyond those bars. I tell you, you've got to lift up yourself out of those confinements and LIVE YOU. So many of us wait on those around us for things we ought to simply take action upon. Stop waiting for people to do for you what you can only do for you, and that is taking responsibility for your life. Stop blaming people around for your woes and disappoints. Listen to me, life is what you make of it. You got to take responsibility for your life and be accountable for those things you do.

Live your Passion.

Living a fulfilled life is all a matter of the choices and decisions we take on daily basis. There is more to your life, watch those actions and live your passion.